WSJ: Want to Stop Arguing and Change Spouse’s Behavior? Change Yourself first
LOL! It always starts with ourselves 🙂
WSJ:
Studies: People Motivated to Be in Relationship Will Alter Behavior to Be More Like Partner
Ever want to change something about your partner? Get him or her to eat better or work less? Exercise more? Stop nagging or yelling? Start with a mirror.
Your best chance of transforming someone else—and the dynamic in your relationship—is to demonstrate your willingness to alter your own actions, experts say.